We all know what I mean when I say 'the vibe was off'. But is this a genuine consideration in leading complex change?
Last year I won a 'once in a lifetime' transformation role at a major South Australian institution.
I turned it down — for a couple of defensible reasons, and one new scenario for my career....
Sitting in the foyer before the interview, I watched a meeting end.
Disgruntled body language. Bemused glances. Passive-aggressive shrugs on the way out the door.
Felt like danger and I could sense the upcoming slog, even if the role was 'high profile'. The vibes were off...and I was out.
Paranoia? An Adelaide neuroscientist convinced me otherwise: your read of a room is your nervous system reporting data it genuinely collected.
Gut feel is the real deal, if you understand the science.
(And The Universe delivered a confirming sample that same evening...in the most unexpected place...)
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